I kind of agree with what you are saying Bob...but the flip side holds true as well...why are people making this a HUGE issue and headlines lately? Why bring up the very small instances of the extreme bad things that happen to trans people? Why do people make it a HUGE issue for the politicians to address these very rare instances? Why are their commercials about these things?? Why do we have parades? The point is that no matter what side of the issue you are on, it is always blown way out of proportion in order to make a point, and then people on the opposite sides sit back and point fingers.
Here is a fix...leave kids alone in terms of surgery or drugs and make sure they have the proper mental health care they need. Have a bathroom for males and one for females (biologically assigned sex) and than a single stall all sex bathroom with a lock on the door. Let ADULTS do whatever the heck they want to their body, call themselves whatever they want to call themselves, marry and sleep with whomever they want to sleep with...and just leave each other alone. Oh yeah, for sports, you either participate based on the biological assigned sex at birth, or in a trans group...if their isn't a trans group, a trans person can be a leader and create one (get funding, participants, run the league, etc.).